If you just walked up to an attractive girl you've never met before (known as a cold approach) and started to talk to her, there is a good chance that you would be viewed with some suspicion, even if she does find you attractive. The situation is even more of a problem for you if you approach girls who are together in a group. This feeling of suspicion that girls get when they are approached by a strange guy is completely natural, it's just human nature to get a little bit nervous whenever someone we've never met before comes to "invade our personal space." Now, obviously if you want to become good at approaching and seducing women, you're going to need a system, a technique to overcome this problem so that any girl you approach will feel completely comfortable with you within the first few minutes of talking to her. And once you know the secret to doing this, you will never have a problem approaching any woman, anytime, anywhere, in absolutely any social situation you happen to meet the woman. You will become a "socially successful" guy with the rare skill of seducing any woman. So how can you pull off this impressive feat with women? What is the secret technique to make women immediately relax when you approach them? Well, you do this by using a very simple psychological technique which I call the "Limited Time" strategy. Basically, what this means is: You have to tell the girl or girls you're approaching the reason why you're approaching them and that what you're about to say won't take more than a couple of minutes, because you have to get back to your friends, or back to work, or whatever you were doing before you came to talk to them. Let's break down this technique. You'll see that it has 3 main parts to it. 1) A REASON for coming up to talk to them (just ask them a quick question on anything you like, it can be to ask them for directions, their opinion on a gift you're thinking of buying for your little sister and you want a female opinion, anything like that) and 2) That you won't take up more than a couple minutes of their time, and 3) That you were BUSY DOING SOMETHING before you came to talk to them and that you have to get back to whatever you were doing so YOUR time is "precious" too. That is basically the formula of the Limited Time technique. You see, all those 3 elements will demonstrate to any girl you approach that you're not some weird creepy guy or you're not just a "player" who makes a habit of approaching attractive girls every day. Of course, the irony is that you can use this technique to successfully approach 1,000 women every day, but each time, you'll come across in the best light. You'll be seen as a socially confident, interesting guy WHO HAS A LIFE! And women are deeply attracted to socially confident guys. If the girl turns out to be very friendly and starts to chat with you, then you can prolong your interaction, and maybe get her phone number before you leave so you can hook up with her later. Even if all she does is to only answer your question but doesn't keep chatting with you, then at least you can simply thank her for her help and say good-bye. The main advantage of the Limited Time technique is that it will give you the confidence to approach any girl you find attractive, anytime, anywhere, knowing that you won't get rejected like 99% of guys who approach with normal "pick-up" lines. |
